In Search of Holistic Ethics: A Chinese Pastor Considers Sexual Identity and the Christian Faith, Part 3
In the Bible, the basic boundary of marriage is that “a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” Leave, cleave, hold fast, and become one flesh – this is the Bible’s position on marriage and sex. From a biblical standpoint, marriage is designed by God. Union in marriage (including the joy of sex) is blessed and permitted by God. The union between a man and a woman is an ideal arrangement for the created, not the result of human lust. The results of lust are undeniable suffering and bondage. The holiness and beauty of sex, from a Christian perspective, can only be attained within this relational boundary.